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Book Review: A Thousand Ways to Die by Trymaine Lee

This month the FL NOW Book Club read A Thousand Ways to Die. It is a devastating
and very important book. It looks at the reality of gun violence in America, which isn’t
covered in the news and is just accepted as part of American life. The author writes
from lived experience. His drive to expose the truth is not academic or distant; it’s
personal. He has witnessed so much violence, attended so many funerals, and carried
so much community grief that it literally broke his body — he suffered a heart attack in
his 30s. That alone tells you the weight of what he spent the young part of his life
witnessing and reporting on.
What makes this book essential is how honestly it names what many policymakers still
avoid: every Black family in America is impacted by gun violence, whether through
direct loss, constant fear, or the generational trauma that follows. The author captures
this with compassion and urgency, weaving together personal stories, community
realities, and the systemic failures that allow this crisis to continue.
Why do we let so many tragedies continue? Money, corruption, misinformation, and
disinformation stoke the public, but political leadership is unwilling to buck the NRA and
the arms industry. Money is chosen over lives.
This is not a book you read and set aside, though you may have to put it down to take a
break from its horrors. It stays with you. It demands action. And it reminds us that gun
violence is not an abstract policy debate — it is a lived, daily threat that shapes entire
communities. It drives an empathy required from all Americans.
I recommend A Thousand Ways to Die with a full 5star rating. It is honest,
heartbreaking, and vital for anyone committed to justice, safety, and the dignity of Black
lives.

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The Emptiness of Two Powerhouses

Written by Karen Mullins / Southern NOW District National Board Member

I am moved by the earthquakes of the last two and a half weeks. For women, today brings the end of an era and a path to new beginnings. Dolly Parton brought hope, tenderness, and moxie to all that she created. She made us face the discomfort of seeing the biases we hold when we meet someone different from ourselves. She shared her world with us, and we are so much better for it.

Gloria Steinem juxtaposed our culture to shed light on the shortcomings in women’s lives. She embodied grace and wisdom, serving in an ironically maternal way as a mother to all. She shared her world with us, and we are so much better for it. Both women championed women, walked in grace, and made room for others to be fully human in their own right. I am encouraged by the leaders of today and the future who have heard and applied the lessons of both Dolly and Gloria. We have wonderful leaders now because of them both.

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7 Men Raped a Woman at Cornell University – Facility Made Them Write an Apology Letter as the Punishment

Written by Kaitlyn Kirk / Communications@flnow.org

In October 2024, a 20-year-old Cornell student went to the Chi Phi fraternity house to meet someone she considered a friend. According to her lawsuit, what followed was hours of drugging and sexual assault.

This site documents the account of the woman who was sexually assaulted by seven members of Cornell University’s Chi Phi fraternity in October 2024, the lawsuit she has filed, and the institutional response surrounding her case.

https://cornellseven.com/